Saturday, December 29, 2012

Christmas 2012


First of all let me just wish my sweet Brooklynn a happy fourth birthday!  Her party is this afternoon, so I will post pics tonight.

I'm not going to lie, Christmas this year stunk!  I stayed with Hayden in the hospital Christmas Eve night and Nick came home and got Brooklynn up the next morning to open some of her presents.  He went ahead and gave her the biggest present, a doll house, the rest we waited to open until Hayden and I got home from the hospital. 
B digging in to her many presents

Hayden supervising

Christmas night Nick's family came over to exchange gifts.



The next night we had Dad, Blake, and Kaley over for dinner.  Yes, you heard correctly.  I made dinner (with help from Kaley, of course!)  I actually used my wedding china for the first time ever.
Here's the proof!  
So excited! 
 Can't wait to go fishing with Uncle Blake
"Where's my present?" - Tugboat 
Helping Pops unwrap his gifts 
Blake and Kaley 
 Brooklynn was kind enough to open all of Hayden's presents since he wasn't feeling up to it.
Of all the gifts B received she was most excited and pajamas with feet.  Ahhh, the little things.

I'll end with my favorite pic from Christmas.  
Pops got a new drill and he made a buzzing noise while pointing it at B.  She about jumped out her skin.  It was pretty funny!

Friday, December 28, 2012

Blah!

That word pretty much describes our Christmas around here.  As many of you know, Hayden was diagnosed last Friday with RSV and broncholitis.  He went to the doctor again on Saturday, but there was nothing they could do.  We just had to wait it out and let the coughing pass. He was coughing so much he was choking and gagging Sunday night, so  I took him to the doctor again Monday morning.  Dr. Hipp decided at that point to admit him to the hospital.  This decision was made for several reasons:  he was working hard to breath, we needed a chest xray to make sure he didn't have pnemounia, and we wanted to rule out the whooping cough and flu.  These things would have taken days because of the holidays, so we went on to Greenville's Children's Hospital.

Not exactly the way we wanted to spend Christmas, but Hayden had good doctor's care and made it through the worst part of RSV while in the hospital.  All his test were negative, except RSV.  There are no treatments for this in kids so small, so we just have to wait it out and continue to do breathing treatments.

We went back to the doc yesterday for our follow up and Dr. Moll put him on steroids to help give him that extra boost.  He was surprised that Hayden's oxygen levels were so high and really pleased with the progress he is making.  Unfortunately, Hayden will cough for another month or so until the virus is completely gone, but the worst is definitely behind us.

We have certainly had a rough week.  I started having those feelings of helplessness again that I had when Mom was sick.  It is hard to watch your three month old constantly cough until he throws up or gags.  Hayden has been a champ though.  He is such a good natured baby.  I can't imagine having to comfort an already moody baby that has RSV, luckily Hayden is pretty laid back and handled things wonderfully.

There is still a small chance that he could develop pnemounia.  The doctor said that his lungs right now are a breeding ground.  It's rare, but could happen.  We are just keeping a close eye on him the next week or so and any small change needs to be examined.  With that being said, he seems to get a little stronger everyday.  He is still pretty pale, but has had a hollow leg (as Papa used to say.)  He can't get enough to eat!

As always I have learned a few things from this experience.  The first being how lucky we are to have Parkside Pediatrics.  They were so supportive though the entire week, even calling to check on Hayden in the hospital on Christmas.  I don't know how to thank them for seeing Hayden so many times and making sure he had the best care possible.

Also, my church.  We hadn't been at the hospital twenty minutes before they called.  The preacher even came out on Christmas Eve, after the two services, to check on Hayden.

 And of course my wonderful group of friends. The constant phone calls, texts, visits, and fb messages were comforting. A special thanks to Sarah Smoke, who was so kind by taking time Christmas Eve to bring dinner all the way to the hospital.  I really am blessed to have such wonderful friends!

Pics of our Christmas are coming soon!


Saturday, December 22, 2012

Christmas Cards

I've had several people ask me why they didn't receive a Farr family Christmas card.  Just a quick post to assure you that you were not left out.  I chose not to send Christmas cards this year.  The reason being that I have written and sent hundreds (and I do mean hundreds) of thank you notes in the past six months.  I really just didn't have it in me this year to write any more addresses on envelopes or buy any more stamps. Sorry. Just the thought of writing on another envelope makes me cringe.  I do promise that next year we will be sending Christmas cards!

Kids that Care


My poor sweet Hayden is a sick boy.  He has had a cough for about three weeks now, and has been to the doctor several times.  He finally was diagnosed with rsv on Friday and started breathing treatments. He had a rough night last night and went back to the doctor this morning.  The doc assured us that he is on the down side of this and that we just have to wait it out because it takes a while for the virus to clear up.

The good news is that the breathing treatments seem to be helping.

In other news, I thought I would share what my class and school worked on Wednesday before school let out for the holidays.

The National Parent Teacher Association is asking for paper made snowflakes to be used to help decorate the school that the Sandy Hook students will be attending in January.  My students were very upset on Monday when they returned to school after the shooting.  Obviously some of them had seen way too much news coverage.  I thought this was a great way for us to show we care about those kids in Connecticut.  Lots of other classes at my school volunteered to help and we ended up with hundreds if snowflakes.

Check it out:


Sunday, December 16, 2012

Big Church

This morning at church the children's choir performed their Christmas program.  We decided to let B come to "Big Church" instead of to her Sunday School classroom.  I thought she might enjoy hearing all the big kids sing.  Once the kids  (who were dressed as shepherds) walked in, B wanted to know why they had on their Halloween costumes.

I have to say that I am really proud of her,  she was well behaved in "Big Church."

Hayden has now been to church three times.  He has yet to leave his car seat or even open his eyes at church.  I guess a sleeping baby in the church nursery is much better than a screaming one.  

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Friday, December 7, 2012

Coughs

Hayden has been fighting a nasty cold. Gram took him to the doctor on Monday and we found out he has an upper respiratory infection.  He has been up and down since then.  Needless to say, we are looking forward to the weekend around here!